If you are talking about Doms and subs, well they might not fully understand the sort of peculiar relationship that exists when you are both Dom and sub. How can it be? Well, just be in love with someone who you’ve decided to not only be held accountable to… but also some who you’ve agreed to hold accountable.
Yes folks, a mutual domestic discipline relationship is very unique, and I’ve found it to be very special.
Me?
Well, I know better. However call it a scream for attention… Call it just plain stupid… This past week I did the unforgiveable. I drove drunk. As ususal, I made it home without problem Being able to drive in such a condition is not a blessing but a curse, that ultimately allows one to believe that they can always do it without problems… an impossible thing to do forever.
I talked to Minx from the bar, she guessed I was probably there. What she didn’t know was that I was knocking back shots with my beers… all of course on an empty stomach as I had not eaten all day. She had no idea just how wasted I was till I got home and was literally falling down. I text messaged her, (no excuse) that I was being naughty. I expected her to come get me. She did not... for one very good reason, her phone (and we verified this) never got the sent messages.
That’s been the way it’s been for us lately, we’ve had very odd and some very tough times some we've caused ourselves but most we've just been stuck in the middle of. In a nutshell... We are expecting to be evicted any day… or powerless,… or phoneless… or heatless… as we continue to dance around the bills that we can barely sometimes pay. Stress is high... no unbearable for both of us, and neither of us could deal with all of this without the other... tempers run on sharp edges… and we often need to grab each other by the earlobe and drag each other for a well deserved spanking but can’t even do that because we never seem to have privacy.
Well, come to the rescue… a friend. One special lady who knows our situation (who I used to mentor) let us use her house for a few hours today. Minx took full advantage and my poor ass is burning.
Thanks again to that special lady who managed to leave on her dresser (for Minx’s use) the wicked plastic prison strap. For those that may want to know… It works all too well.
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Oh dear. For your own well-being, all I can say is that I hope and trust Minx was careful to teach you a lesson you'll never forget.
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Fondly,
Constance
Well, tonight I decided to do something a bit different and take a sneak peak at your blog. I honestly had not expected to see the blog, but as you know me well, and hopefully Minx is finding out, I enjoy being able to offer assistance in any way that I can...and to offer the use of my home for your needs was my pleasure. Believe I know how tough it is to find privacy when it is needed and also how frustrating it is to have to wait to get that privacy.
ReplyDeleteBen, I am so very glad that you appreciated the vinyl strap, especially since you once told me that it would not bother you to have it used on you. Minx, I applaud your ability in making Ben learn a lesson he so deservedly needed. Hopefully it will stay with him for a very long time. He is a very sweet man and a good friend to me, he has been there for me to talk to when I needed and once or twice to apply a well earned/deserved bottom heating for me, but since I now have my own man to be accountable to I am thrilled he has found you, and you are a very lucky woman to have him loving you...and I know you are that special woman he needs.
For as long as I am living here, if the space is needed again, all you need to do is give me a call either online or the phone...and arrangements can and will be made. Your good friend...You both know who this is.
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Yes, she did a fine job and promised there is more to come but we haven't had too much privacy lately.
ReplyDeleteMinx has gotten a series of some early morning trips to the back of the SUV as she has written about and I know sooner or later we'll get back to my reminder.
I think you should be caned too, caning is very effective on us men. You should get used to the idea.....
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